Quote for Today: Jeanette Winterson


And extremes—whether of dullness or fury—successfully prevent feeling. I know our feelings can be so unbearable that we employ ingenious strategies—unconscious strategies—to keep those feelings away. We do a feelings-swap, where we avoid feeling sad or lonely or afraid or inadequate, and feel angry instead. It can work the other way, too—sometimes you do need to feel angry, not inadequate; sometimes you do need to feel love and acceptance, and not the tragic drama of your life.

It takes courage to feel the feeling—and not trade it on the feelings-exchange, or even transfer it altogether to another person.

Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?


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